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You're pretty rigid. You said before that your brother was the one that helped everybody, did all the work, did things, took care of things, took care of you and your dad. And what he wanted you to do was maybe put a little bit of water in a dish and put some cap chow. This is repeater station. Maybe if I was ten feet away, I'm an hour away from him. You'd be expecting me to take a cab all the way there, pay for the cab, get the supplies and do that exact thing. My dad's willing to just take the long bus and go the same way, so there's a huge difference there. And let's see, yeah, he came to my dad's every beckoning, see I wouldn't have done the same thing. I mean my dad has to learn that he has to fend for himself as well. One of the issues I was getting ready to talk to my brother about is we can't just stop our lives every time dad needs something. He's got to learn to stew in it once in a while. I mean when I have a problem, like I have this CAPTCHA issue with my phone. I can't just let everybody drop what they're doing to help me. bills helping me with that. It's a personal issue. So see, I got to see my way with dealing through things, right? But my dad isn't like that. He wants a hero. He wants someone to hold his hand all the time. And he kind of imposes on my brother on that. My brother entertains it. And so I wanted to have this talk with him that we got to slow down. We have to live our lives. We can't just always live vicariously through dad and live his life for him and I'll never need to have that talk but I was seriously rehearsing and wanting to have that with him because it was stressing my brother out he's like there's just no end to dad's needs he's high maintenance and the other issue I was going to suggest but I don't have to now he's gone was maybe one day if we feel we can't hack it we got to lock him up it's how it is we got a we got to send them away send them to a nursing home or something except those issues won't be they won't be realized with my brother that's for sure I mean one day I'll be cornered and that's that's what might I might do but when it was combined and together effort I was rehearsing all those things to tell them but I don't have to now I was gonna say maybe one day we're gonna have to jug them