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All right, thank you, Russell and yeah boys there's definitely something there gray it's undiagnosed like a bipolar or something to that effect and she can just snap at the drop of a hat and she's done it to everybody My brother is talking about he doesn't even know if he can stay here or well upstairs with that If she's like that, you know, he just wants to be there to you know be there for his father as do I and We've got to encounter madness like that. I mean we're grieving too, you know, it's not just her And To treat me like that just after saying, you know, could you please just put the gate back so the dog can't get downstairs That's a very very trivial thing to ask very very minor and Her snap like that and be flipping around furniture Kicking things across the floor. She'll be 20 years old on her birthday She's not The immature 15 year old we're talking about anymore. This is the very immature possibly even more so 19 and a half year old but same kid same kid I Remember getting a call from my sister. Yep. Your niece is over at the house. She smashed out a window We're not home. The alarm is going off can you go over and deal with the police and I said, yep, I'll do it and They didn't do a damn thing open window at all. They didn't do anything. They didn't detain her overnight. They didn't Nothing, so she's never seen consequence like severe consequence for any of her actions She's never been grounded. They could never keep her in a room Even when she was younger. She was just a rude kid. She'd swear right in your face Just didn't give a damn and now she's gotten even worse and even more entitled And I just don't know how to deal with her. I really know I shouldn't have to Like that but and I mean everybody's trying to pull their own, you know since mom to keep everything straight and keep the house going and you know keep everything the way mom would have had it and She's just oh my god, there's no describing it accurately, I don't think What do you do like like you say that was anybody else that spoke to me like that yesterday They would have been on their back looking at the ceiling Because it's uncalled for I mean really uncalled for and She does it too many more times she's going to be out You know, my sister can take her back or she can go find a job or do something and stop being so damn entitled Because There's no need of it. I mean dad is going through it man with With losing mom and he does not need blow-ups like that in his house over nothing Over literally absolutely nothing. So I'm at a loss. I don't know how to deal with it You know, it's it's very difficult situation and I'm trying to get my sister to be intermediary like mom was And now she wants nothing to do with it. She's not living with me. She's living over there Is your problem to deal with like Way to look after your kid But they stopped looking after her several years ago because they couldn't control her she was punching walls and throwing stuff and Beaten up her little sister who's five years younger than her Man, the stuff they've gone through in this family's gone through with that kid since she's about 15 has been On Real this really unreal I could sit here for the next hour and tell you stories stuff we've had to deal with and stuff we had to do because of her behavior and Mental condition aside she refuses to get any help. She refuses to get an assessment and I just don't know what to do. You don't want you Casey