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about the children's feeling from their parents, I see that more often than I like or believe happens. I clearly see it. They're wealthy individuals, right? The parents, one dies, the parent, two, still living, they're in their 80s. And then what they do is they don't expect to live 100. So what they do is they get their assets and they give it to their kids, you know? And they're not left with much of anything. And so the kids get the assets and their assets, and so the titles are the kids' titles now, hoping that they would do the right thing, you know, and support the parents, you know? And they don't do it, they don't do it. And I've seen more than one case of that happening. And it's very, very sad. Secondly, what I've learned the last 30 years is, I tried to, yeah, don't do business with family, you know? I mean, it's one thing, you know, getting my, I'm a mom who's a custodian for my kids' money, that's the way that I see it, you understand? So I'm just a custodian for it. But I could teach them how to manage money, you know? How to manage capital. And so that's another thing I do believe with your children, you have to do it. But you also have to create like firewalls, because they're gonna get married and pretty to him. Over the years, the marriages break apart. And that's the other thing, there's also tax stuff. You need to educate them. But this is what I'm saying about the point that I would like to make. I'm not nothing professional at all. But I think that people can do the, have to take responsibility. The way they do for their weight, for their health, they have to take fiscal responsibility, they have to take responsibility for their monies. And they have to do some homework, you know? They gotta learn. And you have to do that before you even get a financial advisor. You gotta know what's going on, you know? And whether you like it or not, I know I had this conversation with my daughter, oh, I just wanna practice medicine. Her boyfriend too, yeah, we just wanna practice medicine. I wanna work for a big company. And that's it, but you know, there's nothing wrong with working with a big company. But you got to, you know, you have to learn how to manage wealth, right? And if another part, you know, you just don't really work for a big company, but you have to have a plan, you know? A plan, a retirement plan and everything else. But what I think is that you gotta do your homework. And for me, this deal, and my wife calls it a game of capitalism. You have to get time to get rid of me again. Because, you know, making the initial capital, I just want you to have the capital. And your investing is really the easier part. But you gotta be smart, you know, doing it, you know? I'm back to you.